having sex with someone actually is a big deal and involves a ton of vulnerability and i think it’s extremely troubling and gross and unhealthy and actually exceptionally dangerous that we pretend otherwise and encourage people to “be mature” by compartmentalizing/completely eliminating their deeper human emotions from their sexuality and that any other view is dismissed as prudish and invalid and unenlightened and childish and restrictive. i can’t think about this too much because it makes me rage but i hate how much porn and capitalism have destroyed how we understand and experience sexuality and intimate connections with one another so much.
Art By An Ant 